When creator Tiara Dominique’s (@iamtiaradominique) viral video hit our feeds, it felt like confirmation: we needed to talk about this moment. Black women across social media have been hosting “Waiting to Exhale”–themed parties, and honestly, the trend makes perfect sense. What better way to celebrate friendship, resilience, and letting go of what no longer serves you? As we head into the new year, closing out 2025 with your closest friends gathered in honor of one of the most iconic films about Black womanhood feels right on time. So we’re putting a Home & Texture spin on the trend to help you usher in the new year with intention and joy.

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Last night was nothing short of powerful. A ‘Waiting to Exhale’ pajama night filled with laughter, tears, prayer, and sisterhood. We ate good, poured into each other, and released everything that’s been weighing on us. We wrote down what we needed to let go of, placed it on a lantern, and gave it to God. 🕊️ It reminded me that healing doesn’t always have to happen alone sometimes God sends women who help you breathe again. 💞 @Tattedbeau #Sisterhood #FaithAndHealing #WaitingToExhale #GodlyFriendships #SoftGirlHealing

♬ Count On Me (from “Waiting to Exhale” – Original Soundtrack) – Whitney Houston & CeCe Winans

The 1995 film “Waiting To Exhale”, based on Terry McMillan’s bestselling novel, is more than a movie—it’s become a cultural touchstone. It gave us unforgettable scenes (hello, burning wardrobe moment), a legendary soundtrack, and most importantly, a nuanced portrayal of Black women navigating love, heartbreak, career, and friendship. For nearly three decades, it has resonated with generations of women who see themselves in Savannah, Bernadine, Robin, and Gloria. The film’s themes of self-discovery and the unbreakable bond between friends make it the perfect inspiration for a party that’s equal parts cathartic and celebratory.

And this isn’t just any party; it’s a space to reflect on the year, release what’s been weighing you down, and move into the next chapter with clarity and connection. Whether you’re hosting a cozy night in or a full-blown celebration, this theme is the ultimate tribute to friendship and new beginnings.

How To Host A “Waiting To Exhale” Party

Set the Scene: Decor and Ambiance

The key to acing this party is creating an atmosphere that feels both elegant and intimate. Think warm, rich tones—deep burgundies, golds, and earth tones that evoke the film’s 90s aesthetic. Set up cozy seating areas with plush pillows and throws where your guests can lounge and connect. Candles are a must for ambiance; consider adding fresh flowers, such as roses or orchids, for a touch of sophistication. Don’t forget to play the iconic soundtrack on repeat—Whitney Houston, Toni Braxton, Chaka Khan, and Brandy will set the perfect mood. If you want to take it a step further, create a photo wall with quotes from the film or images of the four main characters for guests to snap pictures in front of.

The Menu: Soul Food and Signature Cocktails

Food is central to any great gathering, and for this occasion, you’ll want to serve dishes that feel comforting and celebratory. Think soul food classics—fried chicken, mac and cheese, collard greens, cornbread, and sweet potato pie. You can also offer lighter options, such as a fresh salad bar or seafood platters, to balance the menu. For drinks, create signature cocktails inspired by the characters: a “Bernadine’s Burn” (something fiery and bold), a “Savannah’s Sunset” (fruity and refreshing), a “Robin’s Revival” (light and bubbly), and “Gloria’s Groove” (smooth and sophisticated). Don’t forget non-alcoholic options for guests who prefer mocktails.

Activities: Let It Go and Let It Burn

One of the most memorable scenes from the movie is when Bernadine sets her cheating husband’s belongings on fire—a powerful act of release and reclaiming her power. Channel that energy (safely!) by creating a “Let It Go” ritual for your guests. Provide small pieces of paper and pens, and invite everyone to write down something they’re ready to release from 2025—whether it’s a toxic relationship, self-doubt, or any negativity. Then, gather around a fire pit or fireplace and ceremonially burn the papers together. It’s cathartic, symbolic, and brings everyone together in a shared moment of empowerment. You can also host a toast circle where each guest shares something they’re proud of from the past year and a hope or intention for the new year.