Thanksgiving traditionally centers around family gatherings, but for many, it’s the concept of “Friendsgiving” that offers a fresh take on holiday celebrations. This modern twist brings friends together to share a meal and create lasting memories. Friendsgiving’s flexibility allows you to host it before, after or as an alternative to traditional Thanksgiving. The idea is straightforward: gather your friends, enjoy good food and revel in each other’s company.

At its core, Friendsgiving celebrates connections and shared experiences. Whether you choose a formal dinner or a casual buffet, the point of it all is to prioritize quality time together. Encourage laughter, storytelling and introduce fun group activities or games. By emphasizing gratitude and friendship, your Friendsgiving will likely become a cherished annual tradition among your family and friends.

New to Friendsgiving? Don’t worry — we’ve got you covered. To ensure your Friendsgiving succeeds, we’ve compiled essential hosting tips. From menu planning to atmosphere creation, our suggestions will help you craft the perfect event.

How To Host A Friendsgiving?

Set the Date and Guest List

We advise choosing a date at the beginning of November or a date near Thanksgiving to ensure your friends and family near and far are able to make it. For headcount purposes consider using digital invitations for easy RSVP tracking.

Plan the Menu

To save time gathering everyone’s dietary restrictions, consider making it a potluck. If you do decide to have a potluck, coordinate dishes to ensure a balanced meal.

Prepare Your Space

Ensure you have enough seating, dinnerware and serving utensils. You should also prepare to have more of everything in case last minute guests arrive.

On Friendsgiving Day

Cooking and Preparation

Start cooking early. If it’s a potluck, be ready for guests to reheat or finish preparing their dishes.

Create A Welcome Station

Have appetizers and drinks ready for guests and for added value, consider a DIY picture station.

Enjoy the Meal

Consider starting with a toast or going around the table to share what everyone’s thankful for.

After the Friendsgiving

Clean up together if possible. Send guests home with leftovers in containers you’ve prepared in advance.